The transition from winter to summer, the house hot as the steamer , will Chuyishenhan fixed . No foot bath , a bath every night . He, in turn dawdling up and say that he is to see football , that is, read the news themselves , always wash before her , in turn reversed the order , every day is her first washing , then is he .
　　
Later, his brother getting married , bought a house , as no heat , so my brother wife to look at new house . He first advanced the bathroom , looked around for his brother that new home is better than the old house , no heat will not leak , but you have to remember that a woman afraid of cold , winter bathing, you first wash , washed After the bath temperature will rise , I tried , at least to rise once too! Brother laugh, brother you can really careful , then summer, then ? Summer is not necessarily to make her first wash , it will cool more than once after the washing of the people ? He patted his brother 's shoulder , nodded.
　　
He thought that was the kitchen, she did not hear , in fact, she could hear clearly , hear tears . She would like to Yes, your too stupid , so many years, moved from the old house, new house , never to have central heating , he has been to maintain this habit , she actually had never seriously tried to figure out the meaning of inside .
　　
That night, she was the first time for his side of the foot-washing water . With the new house , the feet of habit but because of the expense of taking a bath every day . He fail to beat her, and had his feet on the water , she was rubbing his washing for him , that foot is covered with the hard cocoon , gradually her eyes wet , his How many years have received much tired , which gave her Now the warm home ah , but her own surprise, has never once washed his feet .
　　
She looked up , 　　
She looked up, the original , wife to the feet so comfortable ah ! She cried .
　　
He washed , she learned to like him then , off the socks , feet on the water, but found that the water has been cool off . Original , one washed the water , the second wash when it is cold , rather than continue to heat with .
　　
She did not say it , nor does it seek to change the order of the first washing after washing , because she knows that it is his own way by giving her love, real love . Increase once the winter for her , for her summer cut once .

Just got married , he had no money with her to live in dilapidated old house. She came from the northern cities , used to house the northern winter heating , with him here , the room cold air leakage around , not a few days , then a disease . He waited at her bedside , distressed speechless .
　　
She was getting better , he used every night to sleep on her side to foot-washing water before , braving the hot water vapor , and then took her foot on the water , to help her wash with rubbing , carefully , Is not like washing feet , but a porcelain , priceless porcelain . Good for her dry cleaning , he again took off his socks , his feet had been cold out of the water into his mouth Xixi hush hush manner , this water is really hot ah .
　　
Winter , she should wash twice a week , Wednesday and Sunday . He also cultivated the habit followed , and each time he insisted on first wash , washing Well then told her to go to the bathroom that day , she would like to watch TV after a bath quickly , told him that I have to take a bath today . He shook his head , no, I first wash . She thought he was joking , while walking to the bathroom side of coquetry and said , no, I have to wash , wash well the can watch TV. He was rushed to a step , took her , with a straight face , I said I first wash ! Having turned into the bathroom .
　　
He did not at any one thing do not give her , except this time , in order to take a bath , so small things , and she in the bathroom outside , listening to the sound of water , grievances began crying . That , she pouted to go home and pack his clothes , he Kuku Qiu her, and she determined to leave him , she said , even such a small matter not accommodate me, what kind of a good husband .
　　
Or coax her better , he promised nothing next to her , no longer compete with her . However , her gas gradually disappeared , he still is the first step in her bath , she is not arguing with him , it gets forgotten promise .

I have been married to an " easily injured woman. " She looks beautiful , indeed Xiaojiabiyu , but delicate fragile , eat not the slightest pain , Shoubu De slightest grievance , take not the slightest idea . I am utterly dependent on her , gave me the full performance of "Men whose masculinity is " the opportunity to meet my self-esteem and vanity . Although some people advised me " you do not even think about Hsing- Golden House " , and I think that other people are eating sour grapes vain , thinking : How can detract from the eyebrows can not be beautiful wife to deal with the truth ?
Sweet romantic love and married soon passed , the next is " bowing to his wife cow "days .
I get up early , it is necessary to keep share of fairly good job , but also taking up all the housework , inside and out is really number one , the wife out doing the work of a very leisurely . Mouth open for food at home is almost clothes to hand . Others laugh I am a " Goddess of Mercy "soldiers , " wife slave " , I never tired . Since my business duties may have changed , often not home from work on time , the contradiction between husband and wife gradually upgraded .
One day I work late , come home to see his wife, fuming , and asked her she cried , Naoliaobantian , the original is menstrual pain that no one made her hot . I say you can own doing it , she stretched out her finger , and said water burn down , I read, I just have a big blister soybeans . I suddenly felt very uncomfortable , not only for her, and himself.
Once a two-day trip home , I saw a messy room , his wife has not disappeared . I quickly called her own family , but attracted Mothers and a good curse : " You're not afraid of the dark do not know my daughter , to travel back to her parents on her first ah ! you single door separated families, and not any skill hire a Nanny with her . "I gave up the journey tired , but also riding a motorcycle back and forth in time more than two hours to his wife back from the road . That night, it was a clean slate is finishing the house , but sitting beside his wife assumed a look of sad , I suddenly remembered someone once said : "There is no Kanaya not even think about a pioneer . "
One day his wife was confirmed pregnant , I'm so excited , intoxicated by a vision for being a father . Who would have thought his wife to tears wash it every day , said she could not stand the hard work raising children , I said: " What are they afraid that I do . " She came angry : " That a little of your salary this on your house, Nanny we hired you ! "I said : " A lot of people are not employed nannies is not to raise the baby . "I thought his wife just a moment of anxiety , did not think she finally asked to be abortion , moreover, there is no definite views of her This stubborn , almost back to ** . I know that this continues not good for the fetus his wife had to go with her in a hospital as cruel flow . When I held delicate wife to go home , I am overwhelmed , I understand that my marriage failed, but not because of abortion.
I finally broke up with his wife , for her , and to me . I would also like a wife , but must not marry " to get injured woman.

She and he are each other's first love . Love comes, the train in the winter , two people have no seat .
   
She is a sense of inferiority of girls , compared to the other girl's contests, she would rather do a corner of grass , no attention, but can also enjoy their own quiet time .
   
He was very generous to move soon as well she asked , then pointed out the window , smiled, and said the snow had no idea how beautiful they are . She followed his eyes looking out the window , fascinated by flying snow . Occasionally, she would Ce Guotou to , attentively listening to him at school interesting . Time as the speeding train, a flash , they put all those tough hard cast on the tracks .
   
Cars arriving , he helped her remove the luggage , hold high the way through the crowd. He said that after a month I take this bus to school , if they can get a bus early morning , perhaps we can no longer be " left standing . "
   
She certainly knew that his love for her tactfully . Her shy smile is his most straightforward response .
   
Since then they sat together many times the train . For them to take to to the same graduate school , vacation , he will save money with working with her to travel. Very often, crossings are no car seat for two people cling to stand in the hallway , looking out the window flowers are blooming in the field .
   
Work, " standing travel "has become the past tense . He promised to her honeymoon , that is, arrived in the beautiful Guilin by plane . She enjoyed the money, the comfort and carefree , happy if she just spent two hours , an EMU ticket will be able to take her to Beijing's downtown shopping centers .
   
She did not know what starts when your lost . She learned to picky , picky people and more restaurants, noisy shopping malls, sub- population of food , congestion of the bus , the paint off the house ; then she was critical of his work , demanding he fat and body , and even saw him on the couch Tired of sleeping position will give birth .
   
She frequently quarrel with him , extremely trivial reasons , to the end, even she had felt no sense of this argument .
   
"Divorce" did not say another word though exports, but the farther away from the heart talks about . In order to save , when he took her love of walking in a small town . Still no seat ticket , the car is still tumultuous , and she has not the old red-hot love .
   
Reaching the halfway , she began to quarrel with him , asking him to fill a sleeper ticket . He insisted that the sleeper has been sold out , but she Buyiburao . Stalled in two , when suddenly the door of a girl sitting up , went before them , shy smiles: "You go to that seat and sit down . " She surprised , asked: "What about you? " Girls Minzui smile , looked behind a boy Nuzui : "I would like to see him standing scenery . "
   
At that moment, she remembered the old days of the time think of himself as ever and the girl , if only one seat , would rather stand with him also , and beloved ; thought she had hugged him so , watching the scenery .
   
Long endless journey this journey , so she will drop the time the rails love to retrieve a Cun Cun .

2008, and none of the allowance paid , but the leaders said , is to be issued at the end , but 10 to December , grew to 300 yuan per capita . Payment , the allowance in two parts , 60 % of living allowance , 40% of the performance benefits . Recently, the State Council executive meeting examined and approved in principle " on the implementation of compulsory education in schools, pay for performance guidance . " The meeting decided that from January 1, 2009 onwards, the nationwide implementation of performance pay compulsory school , compulsory education teachers to ensure that the average wage level not lower than the average wage level of local civil servants .
Grant part of it is a good thing , after the implementation of performance pay , more or less the existence of income disparities will lead to some teachers find ways to improve teaching performance , or a good thing . However , there will be a lot of problems. If a teacher performance evaluation system fair, how to ensure the fairness of the implementation of performance pay , administrative and logistics staff in how to assess the performance of such wages .
There is also a problem to face : pay for performance assessment of teaching performance should mainly positive . Because the economic benefits , some teachers will inevitably mainly in pursuit of test scores , and find ways to improve student test scores , increase student capacity to do problem to extend the time for students to rote learning . Thus, for the healthy growth of primary and secondary students what kind of impact will be ?
At present, the academic burden on students has been quite heavy , the number of students each year in increased myopia . Admitted to the University of little children do not myopia . Many students do not own private space , and have no time to do what they want . Their homework circling around all day , there are endless operations to deal with endless papers . Students feel there is insufficient sleep . I read a letter from junior high school , " class, and sometimes wander and hear the teacher say what , that is, some stumbled , as if that would not just wake up when they fall asleep in particular to Afternoon class. afternoon lecture , part stand-up lessons the class had the students . can not how this method suitable for me . First, I sat in front , standing affects other students; but I do not stand Be careful and lectures, I started with the fight against falling asleep in class or move a bit , try not to always maintain an action or activity of some fingers, so that sound from fingers , hands on some of this pain, while themselves not in a sleepy feeling And sometimes even pinching his flesh , but not commonly used this way , because sometimes reluctant to squeeze , no use of a pinch ruthless , and his then some can not stand . " read this sentence , adults uncomfortable, I really Do not want to write, " destroy " such words .
I have heard at a city high school focused on " small " class teacher to a performance review less than two lines of students talk , " I see you like the results , I hurt for you , sorry for you , I do not Like you do not want to receive student scores , over two lines also formed Bazhua . " face the students who study the so-called provincial excellent teachers and teaching experts, the elite class the class teacher on the spot tears . If not received , you can find a reason , so do not need words to stimulate students naked bar . Later , listening to some students said the teacher to learn a good student " pet to heaven " , but for students in the unsatisfactory results of the banner of " concern " of the cover , not the actual situation according to the students , blind fight , sarcastic , and even in public Criticized on many occasions , without regard self-esteem of students , until the unsatisfactory results of the students to leave his class .
Education is not the quick success of the thing . Many of the students even though they are not good grades , but each student who will have a lot of glittering and valuable asset. Chat with some old teachers would be feeling , then average performance in class or even "poor health " of students after graduation , but can be a career , people Guamuxiangdai . Primary and secondary students , live wave good move, plasticity, a teacher inadvertently encourage or praise , then may stimulate their potential. The implementation of performance pay , it is inevitable to some of the constraints of teachers and students a more rigorous discipline , suppressing the formation and development of individual students , in favor of those students with excellent performance , individual teachers or even students who fall behind against , causing them to dislike or even drop out of school .
This , I wish I was unfounded !